Everyone wants to be loved and accepted. The real authentic you has a deep seated, powerful desire for affection.So the world should be filled with love and acceptance right? Well, look around. Is it?
No, of course it isn't. Because although we all want love and acceptance we, on the average, do not give it. Instead, we hide behind our facade of toughness and invulnerability and throw hate grenades at other people, hopefully tearing them down before they get to tear us down. We generate lies about who we are and what we want so that others can't hurt us. While it seems like a good idea in theory, the armor is never thick enough, the walls are never high enough and we still get hurt. And even worse, this way can never ever lead to being loved and accepted.
To solve this problem we need to change gears. Now, for a real thought provoking question. How are babies and domestic canines alike?
They each are completely filled with the desire to be loved. There isn't a single ounce of falseness within them.They pour out who and what they are in every moment. Unconditional love oozes from every fiber of their being, from them into us. And we can't help but love them right back.
Sheer ecstasy at being around someone that they love is their sole motivation for every action they take. Their happiness is infectious. We catch it even if we think we don't want to. When a baby smiles at us we know they aren't trying to trick us into anything. They aren't luring us in so that they can hurt us. They are simply sharing joy.
It has been said that it is better to give than to receive. Well, in terms of love and acceptance, the saying should be if you wish to receive you must first give. See, we show the world, by our way of being, how we want the world to treat us.
When we put up a false front, lie about who we are and what we want, we tell the world that is how we want others to act around us. When we put on armor and pick up weapons we tell others we want them to attack us.
When we cloth ourselves in love and acceptance we show others that we want to be loved and accepted, but more importantly we show them that we are willing to give them what they truly want. And when you are willing to give others what they truly want they are much more willing to do the same for you.
Contrary to what you might think, when it comes to emotional energy, negative plus positive eventually leads to the destruction of negative, leaving behind the same amount or even more positive than you started with. Negative plus negative only leads to a larger amount of negative. And positive plus positive, of course, leads to more positive.
By being who you are, you free others to be who they are. When they realize that they can safely let their guard down around you, then there are two people who can be themselves. And gradually more and more people will be drawn to you as a result. You can't force the world to change. But you can encourage it.
So stop lying about who you are and what you want. Let out the inner child. Be authentic. Be real. Be you.
Thursday, October 31, 2013
Wednesday, October 30, 2013
What you desire is not important...
...to most people.
This does not mean that if you were to actually ask other people if they care about your wants and needs that they would say no. It simply means that others generally do not think of what you want when they make a decision.
When I am hungry, the first thought in my mind is not making sure that one of my roommates has food to eat. It is not that I don't care about whether or not they starve. It is simply that when I am hungry, the first thought on my mind is how and when I am going to solve my own issue. Often I will invite others to join me in fighting hunger, but I am solving my hunger whether they choose to do so or not.
This concept is very important in life and most people are either unaware of it or don't understand it. Other people, in general, do not care about why you do or do not want a thing, what they care about is why they do or do not want a thing.
When you want something from another person the easiest and best way to get compliance from them is by showing that person how it will benefit them.Sell them on the good it will do them and they will be with you all the way.
One sibling may want another to take them to the mall to meet up with someone for a date. If the one who wants the favor just says "hey can you take me to the mall so I can meet my date there" the other is likely to just say no. But if instead the request is more like this "hey if you take me to the mall and pick me up later i'll do all your homework for a week" then there is a compelling reason for the driver to say yes.
No matter what the request, it does not assist your cause in any way at all to show how that thing is beneficial to you. In fact, it will almost always cause trouble for you.What happens is, you describe how this thing is good for you and the other person comes up with excuses and reasons why it is not good for them. You are being selfish so why shouldn't they? If everyone on the planet were altruistic all the time then doing something new or different just because it benefited another person would be commonplace. Unfortunately, our world is not currently that way.
But, if you start out the conversation by pointing out how the other person's life will be easier or better in some way by doing the thing that you are asking, it becomes much harder for them to say no and many of those excuses magically fail to appear. Others like it when you make their lives better
for them.Another way to do the same thing is to show them how the current way does not serve them and the new way would.
So when attempting to get others to agree to a request or some new change, what you want does not matter. It is how well you cause the other person to see the way or ways in which they will benefit that really matters.
In order to be truly successful YOU have to be different. Other people don't care what you want, but the easiest way to get them to do what you want is to show them that you care what they want.
This does not mean that if you were to actually ask other people if they care about your wants and needs that they would say no. It simply means that others generally do not think of what you want when they make a decision.
When I am hungry, the first thought in my mind is not making sure that one of my roommates has food to eat. It is not that I don't care about whether or not they starve. It is simply that when I am hungry, the first thought on my mind is how and when I am going to solve my own issue. Often I will invite others to join me in fighting hunger, but I am solving my hunger whether they choose to do so or not.
This concept is very important in life and most people are either unaware of it or don't understand it. Other people, in general, do not care about why you do or do not want a thing, what they care about is why they do or do not want a thing.
When you want something from another person the easiest and best way to get compliance from them is by showing that person how it will benefit them.Sell them on the good it will do them and they will be with you all the way.
One sibling may want another to take them to the mall to meet up with someone for a date. If the one who wants the favor just says "hey can you take me to the mall so I can meet my date there" the other is likely to just say no. But if instead the request is more like this "hey if you take me to the mall and pick me up later i'll do all your homework for a week" then there is a compelling reason for the driver to say yes.
No matter what the request, it does not assist your cause in any way at all to show how that thing is beneficial to you. In fact, it will almost always cause trouble for you.What happens is, you describe how this thing is good for you and the other person comes up with excuses and reasons why it is not good for them. You are being selfish so why shouldn't they? If everyone on the planet were altruistic all the time then doing something new or different just because it benefited another person would be commonplace. Unfortunately, our world is not currently that way.
But, if you start out the conversation by pointing out how the other person's life will be easier or better in some way by doing the thing that you are asking, it becomes much harder for them to say no and many of those excuses magically fail to appear. Others like it when you make their lives better
for them.Another way to do the same thing is to show them how the current way does not serve them and the new way would.
So when attempting to get others to agree to a request or some new change, what you want does not matter. It is how well you cause the other person to see the way or ways in which they will benefit that really matters.
In order to be truly successful YOU have to be different. Other people don't care what you want, but the easiest way to get them to do what you want is to show them that you care what they want.
Tuesday, October 29, 2013
Happiness and Satisfaction
Did you ever hear that old George Carlin bit about new and improved? He used to say that it irritated him how commercials and advertisements everywhere boast about their new and improved products. His point was that a thing could be either new or improved. But not both.
I mean, think about it, if something is brand new it has not been changed or upgraded, simply by the definition of new. And once a thing has had changes made to it, to make it better, thus improving it, it is no longer new. If you use the old item as a template to assist you in making a new item, you can improve upon the old idea, but the new item itself is not improved. It is simply an improvement of the old item. In such a case the old item would be improved and the new item would be new. Simple right?
Well happiness and satisfaction work kind of the same way. While it is technically possible to be happy and completely satisfied at the same time, it is very unlikely to happen. And in fact if it does you are likely deluding yourself somewhere. What makes me say this?
Both are states of mind. And although they seem similar, especially if we are just comparing dictionary definitions, they refer to different things.
Happiness is a choice, one that many people, for whatever reason, do not select. It is a positive filter that we can see the world through. It colors what you say and do, how you interact with others and how they react to you. It is a general way of being. And once chosen its an always on thing that only changes when you decide to make a new choice and no longer be happy.
Satisfaction is more about a comparison between your vision of everything you want in life and what you currently have. It is about ambition. And not just the idea of one day taking your boss's job. Its more than that. It is about your ambitions in every aspect of your life whether they be financial, spiritual,religious,mental or physical. The size of your family, who your friends are and what kind of people they are, where you live, what toys you have for your amusement,what level of education you have, how you spend your free time, all these things that you have, when compared to your perfect vision of life determines your overall satisfaction with how things are.
For a happy person, a temporary appearance of unhappiness is generally only a reflection of dissatisfaction with a current event. Once that even is handled the person goes back to their generally genial nature.
Here is the key and how it ties in to the Carlin bit. Being happy is healthy and natural. But being satisfied for any real length of time is not. The reason for this is once we reach a goal it is perfectly natural to make a new goal, to always desire and strive for more. This is not greed. It is simply the way life works, constantly pushing on to learn more, do more and see more, to steadily increase itself.
It is when this increase of life stops that dissolution and death set in. So I wish you every possible happiness and a great dissatisfaction with life.
I mean, think about it, if something is brand new it has not been changed or upgraded, simply by the definition of new. And once a thing has had changes made to it, to make it better, thus improving it, it is no longer new. If you use the old item as a template to assist you in making a new item, you can improve upon the old idea, but the new item itself is not improved. It is simply an improvement of the old item. In such a case the old item would be improved and the new item would be new. Simple right?
Well happiness and satisfaction work kind of the same way. While it is technically possible to be happy and completely satisfied at the same time, it is very unlikely to happen. And in fact if it does you are likely deluding yourself somewhere. What makes me say this?
Both are states of mind. And although they seem similar, especially if we are just comparing dictionary definitions, they refer to different things.
Happiness is a choice, one that many people, for whatever reason, do not select. It is a positive filter that we can see the world through. It colors what you say and do, how you interact with others and how they react to you. It is a general way of being. And once chosen its an always on thing that only changes when you decide to make a new choice and no longer be happy.
Satisfaction is more about a comparison between your vision of everything you want in life and what you currently have. It is about ambition. And not just the idea of one day taking your boss's job. Its more than that. It is about your ambitions in every aspect of your life whether they be financial, spiritual,religious,mental or physical. The size of your family, who your friends are and what kind of people they are, where you live, what toys you have for your amusement,what level of education you have, how you spend your free time, all these things that you have, when compared to your perfect vision of life determines your overall satisfaction with how things are.
For a happy person, a temporary appearance of unhappiness is generally only a reflection of dissatisfaction with a current event. Once that even is handled the person goes back to their generally genial nature.
Here is the key and how it ties in to the Carlin bit. Being happy is healthy and natural. But being satisfied for any real length of time is not. The reason for this is once we reach a goal it is perfectly natural to make a new goal, to always desire and strive for more. This is not greed. It is simply the way life works, constantly pushing on to learn more, do more and see more, to steadily increase itself.
It is when this increase of life stops that dissolution and death set in. So I wish you every possible happiness and a great dissatisfaction with life.
Monday, October 28, 2013
Some perspective on what is normal
When I was a kid, (no really, it did happen) my step-dad was always trying to get me to be like a normal person. It was his idea that I should follow traditional habits and patterns. Have I mentioned that he and I never really got along? He was constantly punishing me for failing to fit within his intended mold.
It has never been my way to walk in the footsteps of others. I would rather blaze my own trail for like minded individuals to follow if they wish or simply to show others that they can find their own way like I did.
Normal people work 9-5 jobs he would say. In my mind I would reply, but normal people are unhappy. He would also say normal people go to college and get a degree so that they can make more money. To that my internal voice would say, normal people are dead broke living paycheck to paycheck.
We get the idea of being abnormal as bad from peer pressure. Parents, teachers, neighbors, friends, siblings, everyone makes us feel like the only way we are good enough to be part of anything is if we are normal.
Literally what is normal is simply the average of all people together, once the super highs and super lows are discarded. If society was filled to the brim with wealthy, sane people living, happy productive lives, then being normal would be totally awesome.
95% of the population in America lives just a little above the poverty level. 2/3 of the population are unhappy, including many illnesses and diseases brought on by stress. The average person does not have enough free time and spends much of the time that they do have worried over the things they either do not have the time for or can not do due to financial stresses. Still want to be normal?
What is normal is what is average. So, if you are normal, you are plain jane and vanilla. You stand out in no way at all. Mediocrity is the epitome of normal. Being normal is taking the path of least resistance and at the end of that road is the least amount of rewards.
Who is not normal? Anyone earning in the top five percent. Movie stars and successful musicians. Best-selling authors. Professional athletes. People that earn awards and recognition. Anyone at all who is in any way rich or famous.
If you find that you are a normal person, you have bought into the lie that being normal is the way to acceptance. The people that find the greatest acceptance within our society are those aforementioned celebrities. It is quite often in point of fact that the things that make us not like other people are the things that make us great.
Choosing to be normal is like choosing the death sentence to any future creativity and accomplishments you may have otherwise had. You can be normal if you want to. But I'm gonna look for a better way
It has never been my way to walk in the footsteps of others. I would rather blaze my own trail for like minded individuals to follow if they wish or simply to show others that they can find their own way like I did.
Normal people work 9-5 jobs he would say. In my mind I would reply, but normal people are unhappy. He would also say normal people go to college and get a degree so that they can make more money. To that my internal voice would say, normal people are dead broke living paycheck to paycheck.
We get the idea of being abnormal as bad from peer pressure. Parents, teachers, neighbors, friends, siblings, everyone makes us feel like the only way we are good enough to be part of anything is if we are normal.
Literally what is normal is simply the average of all people together, once the super highs and super lows are discarded. If society was filled to the brim with wealthy, sane people living, happy productive lives, then being normal would be totally awesome.
95% of the population in America lives just a little above the poverty level. 2/3 of the population are unhappy, including many illnesses and diseases brought on by stress. The average person does not have enough free time and spends much of the time that they do have worried over the things they either do not have the time for or can not do due to financial stresses. Still want to be normal?
What is normal is what is average. So, if you are normal, you are plain jane and vanilla. You stand out in no way at all. Mediocrity is the epitome of normal. Being normal is taking the path of least resistance and at the end of that road is the least amount of rewards.
Who is not normal? Anyone earning in the top five percent. Movie stars and successful musicians. Best-selling authors. Professional athletes. People that earn awards and recognition. Anyone at all who is in any way rich or famous.
If you find that you are a normal person, you have bought into the lie that being normal is the way to acceptance. The people that find the greatest acceptance within our society are those aforementioned celebrities. It is quite often in point of fact that the things that make us not like other people are the things that make us great.
Choosing to be normal is like choosing the death sentence to any future creativity and accomplishments you may have otherwise had. You can be normal if you want to. But I'm gonna look for a better way
Sunday, October 27, 2013
To think or not to think
I read something today that a friend of mine had re-posted on her Facebook wall. It was part of an article that suggested that if you want people to think, you should give them an end goal to work towards and let them use their own creativity to figure out how to get the job done.
The article pointed out that, instead of doing this we tend to give people instructions on how we want something to be done and then they just blindly follow the instructions on autopilot until the task is complete. Both ways gets the job done. But only one of them actually engages the minds of the people doing the work.
This caused me to be reminded of the Matrix trilogy. While there are tons of allegories, philosophical lessons and religious overtones, those movies drive home for me how most people live nearly their entire lives without doing any active thinking at all, once they get out of school.
People tend to make a few basic decisions that drive their life in a certain direction and then just tune out for the rest of their lives. The routine becomes all there is.
Wake up. Go to work. Come home. Spend some time with the wife/kids/computer. Go back to bed. That's all there is to Monday through Friday. Saturday and Sunday are for getting drunk with the buddies/homegirls, watching sports and forgetting about the trials and tribulations of the week. And then its back to Monday to start the whole thing all over. This goes on for a handful of decades and then we retire. Shortly after we die of old age.
It has been said many times and many different ways that all that truly separates man from the animal kingdom is our capacity for rational thought. If that is true then why is it that 99 out of 100 of us insist on spending nearly our whole lives as zombies, just following along with the masses.
We have the ability to look at our lives objectively, to see the things that we like and do not like about them. We have the power to change the things that we do not like, to craft the life we have into the life we want. Why don't we? Why don't you?
I believe that giving people a task and letting them find their own solution is a tremendously good idea. It saves you the trouble of needing to figure out every little finite detail. Besides, someone else is bound to think of different things than you do, perhaps even better solutions than what you would come up with. And very few people, if any, enjoy being micromanaged.
Encouraging others to come up with their own way of getting a thing done, gives them the opportunity of warming up their little used mental capacities and then allows them the opportunity to decide for themselves if they want to continue thinking for themselves or go back into the Matrix and let their thinking be done for them.
The article pointed out that, instead of doing this we tend to give people instructions on how we want something to be done and then they just blindly follow the instructions on autopilot until the task is complete. Both ways gets the job done. But only one of them actually engages the minds of the people doing the work.
This caused me to be reminded of the Matrix trilogy. While there are tons of allegories, philosophical lessons and religious overtones, those movies drive home for me how most people live nearly their entire lives without doing any active thinking at all, once they get out of school.
People tend to make a few basic decisions that drive their life in a certain direction and then just tune out for the rest of their lives. The routine becomes all there is.
Wake up. Go to work. Come home. Spend some time with the wife/kids/computer. Go back to bed. That's all there is to Monday through Friday. Saturday and Sunday are for getting drunk with the buddies/homegirls, watching sports and forgetting about the trials and tribulations of the week. And then its back to Monday to start the whole thing all over. This goes on for a handful of decades and then we retire. Shortly after we die of old age.
It has been said many times and many different ways that all that truly separates man from the animal kingdom is our capacity for rational thought. If that is true then why is it that 99 out of 100 of us insist on spending nearly our whole lives as zombies, just following along with the masses.
We have the ability to look at our lives objectively, to see the things that we like and do not like about them. We have the power to change the things that we do not like, to craft the life we have into the life we want. Why don't we? Why don't you?
I believe that giving people a task and letting them find their own solution is a tremendously good idea. It saves you the trouble of needing to figure out every little finite detail. Besides, someone else is bound to think of different things than you do, perhaps even better solutions than what you would come up with. And very few people, if any, enjoy being micromanaged.
Encouraging others to come up with their own way of getting a thing done, gives them the opportunity of warming up their little used mental capacities and then allows them the opportunity to decide for themselves if they want to continue thinking for themselves or go back into the Matrix and let their thinking be done for them.
Saturday, October 26, 2013
The latter of two evils
It is said that there are two kinds of evil in this world. First there are people who do evil things. And second are the people who see evil being done but do nothing to stop it. I say that the former is bad enough, but the latter is by far the greater of the two evils. The first is a thing done by but a few people here and there. The second is done by society as a whole.
Many people like to tell themselves that they don't do evil things so they are not to blame for why the world is the way it is. But how often does it happen that you see injustices done to other people and you choose to do nothing about it? Whether its a mugging in some back alley, bullying on the playground or some form of extortion by local gangs, how often do you see things that you know are not right, but you look the other way?
Every time these crimes occur and we look the other way, we are sanctioning the behavior of the animals that perform them. We are telling the people committing them and everyone else around us that we agree with what is happening and think it is alright.
You may want to tell yourself that you are just looking out for yourself. You say it's okay. I didn't do anything wrong and I am not bad. That person who did the evil thing is. They are in the wrong.You keep your head down and hope nobody notices you. But they do notice. The person committing the evil act is empowered by your cowardice and lack of willingness to make things right. They are encouraged to continue acting in the same manner. And every other person that sees what is going on and does not do their utmost to stop what is going on perpetuates the cycle as well.
It is your moral obligation, your duty in fact, to stand up and protest when you see others performing evil acts. We, in America, the land of the free, the home of the brave, more than anywhere else, should be ashamed of allowing ourselves to be oppressed by anyone, especially after the lengths that our forefathers went to in order to ensure our freedom from such tyranny.
Find others that see what is going on and are also not okay with it. Band together and confront the evildoer(s). Take whatever measures are necessary to correct things.
Whenever possible work within the limits of the law. But if the law is on the side of wrong, you must do what is right, both for yourself and for those you care about.You may get beaten up. You may in fact get killed. But is life really worth living under the thumb of oppression, being controlled by the whims of evil men? If you cannot hold your head up high and be proud that you are willing to fight for what you believe in, aren't you already dead in your heart and mind?
Many people like to tell themselves that they don't do evil things so they are not to blame for why the world is the way it is. But how often does it happen that you see injustices done to other people and you choose to do nothing about it? Whether its a mugging in some back alley, bullying on the playground or some form of extortion by local gangs, how often do you see things that you know are not right, but you look the other way?
Every time these crimes occur and we look the other way, we are sanctioning the behavior of the animals that perform them. We are telling the people committing them and everyone else around us that we agree with what is happening and think it is alright.
You may want to tell yourself that you are just looking out for yourself. You say it's okay. I didn't do anything wrong and I am not bad. That person who did the evil thing is. They are in the wrong.You keep your head down and hope nobody notices you. But they do notice. The person committing the evil act is empowered by your cowardice and lack of willingness to make things right. They are encouraged to continue acting in the same manner. And every other person that sees what is going on and does not do their utmost to stop what is going on perpetuates the cycle as well.
It is your moral obligation, your duty in fact, to stand up and protest when you see others performing evil acts. We, in America, the land of the free, the home of the brave, more than anywhere else, should be ashamed of allowing ourselves to be oppressed by anyone, especially after the lengths that our forefathers went to in order to ensure our freedom from such tyranny.
Find others that see what is going on and are also not okay with it. Band together and confront the evildoer(s). Take whatever measures are necessary to correct things.
Whenever possible work within the limits of the law. But if the law is on the side of wrong, you must do what is right, both for yourself and for those you care about.You may get beaten up. You may in fact get killed. But is life really worth living under the thumb of oppression, being controlled by the whims of evil men? If you cannot hold your head up high and be proud that you are willing to fight for what you believe in, aren't you already dead in your heart and mind?
Thursday, October 24, 2013
My aversion to social media
For a long time, I have resisted using social media sites on the internet. That's not to say I have never used them, just that I have not been comfortable with them. I have both a Facebook account and a Twitter account, but their usage has been sporadic and light.
Originally, my resistance was due to mistrust over the usage of personalized data that these sites collect. I thought I wanted my general every day actions to remain anonymous. But, recently I started to really do some serious thinking.
For one, I am not ashamed of anything I do, though some of my habits and choices are things that others may not agree with.The idea of keeping my private life private has always been part of why I avoided the social media. But it occurred to me that I really don't care whether my life is private or not. I am rather fond of saying that there isn't anything I wouldn't do privately that I wouldn't also be willing to do live on public television. And if this is true what I am I doing hiding from these social media sites?
Avoiding Facebook or Twitter isn't going to keep my information away from the federal government. They already know where I live. I don't have any intention of posting "racy" pictures of myself anywhere. But so what if I did? I am not a gorgeous teenage girl that is likely to get stalked or kidnapped.
Part of the usage data collected by these websites is used for advertising purposes. There is no worry that my purchasing habits will be at all influenced by additional advertising, even if it is more focused. I buy what I want to buy and commercials seldom influence that.
I have a message of empowerment and enlightenment to bring the world. My vision of world wide change due to waking up the masses and educating them to the fact that they can choose a better life if only they are willing to work for it, is not going to happen if I am "hiding" from the internet.
For a very long time I was looking for an online business that I can really get behind, something that supports my beliefs. In the Empower Network I have found such a business. The products and core steps of the Empower Network are set up to teach people how to constantly improve themselves while learning to promote a business. It is literally designed to empower people while helping them earn a living online. In just two short years, they have helped tens of thousands of people to start making a living online, people who have never had success online before.
Promoting this business, promotes my beliefs. Just by being, it makes the world a better place. And social media sites are a big part of promoting the Empower Network. Based on all these things, I really have no reason to continue avoiding the social media.
So, out with the old way of thinking and in with the new.
Originally, my resistance was due to mistrust over the usage of personalized data that these sites collect. I thought I wanted my general every day actions to remain anonymous. But, recently I started to really do some serious thinking.
For one, I am not ashamed of anything I do, though some of my habits and choices are things that others may not agree with.The idea of keeping my private life private has always been part of why I avoided the social media. But it occurred to me that I really don't care whether my life is private or not. I am rather fond of saying that there isn't anything I wouldn't do privately that I wouldn't also be willing to do live on public television. And if this is true what I am I doing hiding from these social media sites?
Avoiding Facebook or Twitter isn't going to keep my information away from the federal government. They already know where I live. I don't have any intention of posting "racy" pictures of myself anywhere. But so what if I did? I am not a gorgeous teenage girl that is likely to get stalked or kidnapped.
Part of the usage data collected by these websites is used for advertising purposes. There is no worry that my purchasing habits will be at all influenced by additional advertising, even if it is more focused. I buy what I want to buy and commercials seldom influence that.
I have a message of empowerment and enlightenment to bring the world. My vision of world wide change due to waking up the masses and educating them to the fact that they can choose a better life if only they are willing to work for it, is not going to happen if I am "hiding" from the internet.
For a very long time I was looking for an online business that I can really get behind, something that supports my beliefs. In the Empower Network I have found such a business. The products and core steps of the Empower Network are set up to teach people how to constantly improve themselves while learning to promote a business. It is literally designed to empower people while helping them earn a living online. In just two short years, they have helped tens of thousands of people to start making a living online, people who have never had success online before.
Promoting this business, promotes my beliefs. Just by being, it makes the world a better place. And social media sites are a big part of promoting the Empower Network. Based on all these things, I really have no reason to continue avoiding the social media.
So, out with the old way of thinking and in with the new.
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